This I Believe
I believe
adversity reveals a person’s true strengths. It is the desire to overcome a
rough situation that reveals a person’s fortitude. Whenever I think this, I
think a experience I had in high school.
I
was called into a meeting of about a dozen other people to discuss the current
team dynamic and how things needed to be corrected. The main topic of this
meeting was respect and how as teammates we need to respect one another.
However, what occurred after was anything but respectful. In order for everyone
to voice their opinions about what needed to be corrected in order to restore
the team back to “normal” was for everyone to write down their issues. But out
of respect, the topic I thought we had just discussed the importance of, I
didn’t write a single word down.
When
everyone had written their thoughts down on paper, they were collected then
read aloud. To be honest I didn’t expect many of the papers to have anything
written about me. Turns out I was wrong; almost all of them had some relevance
to me or my actions. While the papers were read aloud, I was forced to sit
there and keep quite. I was unable to defend myself and ultimately silenced.
This
experience revealed strengths I did not even know I had. That day I learned that
by withstanding the pain I experienced during that meeting and even after, I
was mentally stronger for enduring such an adversity.